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Meet me by a story – when I met my 11-year-old-self

I sorted out old stuff, and when I got to the bottom of a box, an old cassette came out; the year is 1984. On the tape, it's my grandmother speaking to us. She was born in 1898 in a forever gone era. Family life is in the background; I can hear my 11-year-old self and my family: My grandmother explains our horoscope (which she made herself by the way)'... and Scorpio has perfect health and a very good regenerative ability. Like a scorpion, if it loses its tail, it will outgrow it again. So they say the scorpion can't be beaten to death' – a giggle in the background, and then one of us says,' he's losing his head, and it's growing back!' Another giggle.

I used to listen to those loads of wisdom bits with my mouth open back that time. 'So, no matter how talented you become, vanity will never catch you. And those are not true friends who always praise and flatter you, but those who tell their objections, if there is one.' And things like that.

I realized how important it is to know what we bring with us. If you connect with yourself, your roots, and then your present, all of which has helped you become who you are, that continuity will be there with your moving on. By accepting the past and experiencing the present, you will be able to turn to the future. The ability to connect with yourself allows you to meet the right people at the right moment. It also teaches you to apply all your experiences, how to turn them to your advantage. You cannot change what happened (and you don't have to), it will be there with you, but you can influence your relationship with it.

The real question is if you can see your experiences as knowledge and, if so, what you use them for.

Is coaching for you?

Yes, if you want to connect with yourself more consciously:

if you have an area in your life you want to improve on it is just not easy to take the first steps;
or
if you have an issue (life- or university-related) you want to solve but you feel stuck

I can help you to:

clarify, identify your blocks
express your strengths, values
set up a goal in reality
find your own ways to your own solutions
learn how to cope with stressful situations
cope with and either benefit from your conflicts

>> Interview with Bori <<

What is going to happen in coaching?

We sit down to talk about a topic, a question or a dilemma that you find important.
I ask questions, I use certain methods, materials that support you, might show you new viewpoints, help you with discovering your own answers, solutions.
I will not give you any advice or tell you what to do. Only your own solution is really yours. However, I will support you step by step, accompany you as long as you reach a cornerstone from where you can continue your journey without me.
In coaching I help you with self-development, discovering, reinforcing and activating your own inner resources.

What is not going to happen in coaching?

IMPORTANT: Coaching is not a psychotherapy. I will not analyse, discover your past. We proceed with a certain topic, question or problem, previously agreed on a clear goal, focusing on the solution. The question is what you would like to achieve and what you do for it.

Contact:

Bori Nagy
help_coaching@btk.elte.hu

REGISTRATION FOR INDIVIDUAL COACHING

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neptun code and
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Coaching sessions can take place in person or online on Teams.

Location: will be arranged via email with the registered applicants.